{ major downpayments...whew! }

i've already paid downpayments to the following:
1. of course, the venue - 50% downpayment >>> 14,000
2. photographer - paid with 10,000 (actually i've paid 2,000 before to a certain photographer but decided not to get his service anymore)
3. videographer - paid 5,000 reservation fee
4. caterer - paid 10,000 downpayment

...so far, it looks i'm still not leading to a "cramming-mode"...but, sigh, i don't have a makeup artist yet...=(